Wednesday, November 10, 2010

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 9

Today, I am thankful for America.


I could spend hours writing about why I'm thankful for the freedom and liberties we have in America, but I think I'll keep it simple today.


I'm thankful for the freedom that exists in America and for those individuals that have served our country to protect our freedom. 

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 8

Today, I'm thankful for my education.

I've always LOVED school. My parents instilled values about education ever since I can remember. "Always do your homework as soon as you come home from school," and "no, you can't go out to play until it's done." Seemed pretty simple... and it seemed to work.

I've always loved doing homework (I know, strange) and the satisfaction of turning in a paper or project done to the best of my ability was always so gratifying. Whether it was elementary school, middle school, high school or college, I don't think I ever missed an assignment. I always expected a high score, not because I thought I was the smartest kid or did the best job, but because I knew I could always challenge myself to be the best of my ability. I didn't always GET a perfect score, don't get me wrong. But when I did get a grade that was lower than I expected, it brought me down and then I just knew I had to work harder the next time. While my parents had strict rules for when I did my homework, they never EVER pressured me with regard to my grades. I've always been self-motivated and never really needed a push from anyone. Thank you, Type A Personality.

I learned the most about the value of my education in high school. That's when it started to count. AP classes, honor society, the whole shebang.... all of the courses for "highly-selective colleges." Looking back, I loved my high school experience. I had some of the best teachers that prepared me both for college and to become a well-adjusted, productive adult. Favorite teacher? Mr. Robinson, hands down. Something about the way he taught really made me think about why I answered a question the way I did, and what the real-world application really meant.

Then came college. Hello University of Washington, it's nice to meet you and the other 60,000+ students here. I didn't go by Julie Voeller, I went by my student ID number. I had the world's 2nd worst roommate (Stefan got lucky with the world's worst) and became very frustrated trying to learn in my freshman classes with 500+ students. While I absolutely loved living in Seattle and loved the campus, UW just wasn't the best fit for me, nor did it complement how I like to learn and I don't think it really opened up the right opportunities for me from an educational perspective. I did learn a lot though, and this experience really allowed me to understand what I was looking for in my educational goals and aspirations.


Then came a transfer. Hello University of Puget Sound! I was one of 3200 students and from the second I transfered as a sophomore, I knew that was where I was meant to be. Small, private liberal arts college. I thought it would be too close to home (15 minutes from where I grew up), but it ended up being absolutely perfect. My professors knew me by name, I saw recognizeable faces on campus and becoming involved in various activities on campus really allowed me to find my place. I realized that I no longer wanted to be a dentist and found a great interest in psychology. I did some independent research with one of my professors, completed an internship that complemented my senior thesis and was President of the Psychology Honor Society my senior year. In addition to this (nerdy) little part of my resume, I was involved in leadership offices in my sorority, worked part-time as a nanny and a barista and still made time to make some of the most lasting friendships I never could've imagined.


I loved college. It taught me so much about myself, my aspirations, my strengths, my weaknesses and how I can be the best at whatever I decide to do. College was one of the best experiences of my life and I cannot be more thankful to have been given the opportunity to attend such a great school and learn so much about myself and to obtain such a well-rounded education.

And no folks, it didn't stop there. Because I loved school SOOOO much, I decided to get my Masters in Adult Education/Training after I became a corporate trainer at Progressive. Not because it would give me any advancements in my company, but because I wanted to understand the why behind adult learning and why we teach adults the way we do. (Don't worry, I don't take offense if you call me a nerd at this point.) While this was a completely different experience (the program was online), it actually taught me a lot about the future of education. My masters thesis was about the transition of corporate training from face-to-face learning to more online and virtual methods of instruction. I was able to incorporate my experiences at work with what I was learning in school to the research that has been conducted in corporate training settings. I loved how everything came back full-circle because it really made my masters program seem meaningful and relevant.


I thank my parents for proving a solid foundation with the importance of education.

I thank my elementary and middle school teachers for the encouragement and positive contribution that allowed me to realize that I can do anything.

I thank my high school teachers for opening my eyes and providing focus on the importance of my future.

I thank my college professors for challenging my beliefs and allowing me to think like an individual.

Without my education, I don't know where I'd be.

Monday, November 8, 2010

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 7

Today, I am thankful for good books.

I've always loved to read but when I was in college, then starting my first job out of college and during my masters program, I never really had the time to read for fun. Now that I have a little more free time, I really enjoy taking time to just curl up and read a good book. I used to love the feel of holding a book in my hand and turning the pages... but after I got my iPad, I now enjoy curling up with my iPad and touching the screen to turn the page. :) Not to mention, I can download pretty much any book I want in less than a minute. Going back to that technology thing... pretty awesome.

A few of my all-time favorite books:

A Piece of Cake - Cupcake Brown

Monster - Sanyika Shakur

A Million Little Pieces - James Frey

Wasted - Marya Hornbacher

Tuesdays with Morrie - Mitch Albom

A Thousand Splendid Suns - Khaled Hosseini

5 People You Meet in Heaven - Mitch Albom

For One More Day - Mitch Albom

Marley and Me - John Grogan

The Shack - William P. Young

Push - Sapphire

Saving Max - Antoinette van Heugten

Shit My Dad Says - Justin Halpern

And for a little fun...

Anything by Chelsea Handler and Tucker Max :)

Up next: I just downloaded Portia de Rossi's new book, Unbearable Lightness and I'm still trying to get past the first 50 pages in The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo... not having too much luck though.

Sunday, November 7, 2010

goodbye crackberry, hello "high" phone.

If you thought I was addicted to my blackberry, then I have a serious problem with my new iphone.

This phone is SO wonderful.... so easy to use, so fast, takes great pictures, and the apps?! OMG!!! I could spend HOURS finding new ones... 

Here are a few of my faves:

  • Hipstamatic - takes awesome pictures, from a bunch of different old camera lenses, flashes and types of film... 


  • White Noise - I used this when I was traveling in Cleveland last time. I've been having a hard time sleeping lately in hotels, and I love the Fire/Water/Wind combo. You can play it for as long as you want and have an alarm go off at the end!


  • Talking Tom - Ok, this one is just silly. You say something and then this cartoon cat (Tom) repeats it in a high, chipmunk voice. If it doesn't make you laugh, then you just don't have a sense of humor.


  • Toon Paint - You can take pictures and make them look like black and white cartoons, and then paint them with your fingers :)




  • Toon Camera - Similar to Toon Paint, but it takes the picture in color, so it just looks like you're in a comic book.




  • Hey Tell - It's basically a walkie-talkie with whoever else has Hey Tell. Stefan and I use it all the time instead of texting and driving! 

And it's true, once you go mac, you never go back.... (I know, I know, that was terrible.)

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 6

Today, I am thankful for our pets.


Growing up, I had fish and a dalmatian named Sugar. We only had Sugar for a few years, and we had to find her a new home when we moved from our Lakewood house. Other than that, I didn't have any other pets and never really considered myself an "animal lover." Not that I didn't like animals, I just never really appreciated or understood the bond between a person and their pets.


Stefan had dogs and cats growing up. I'll be honest, I never really liked cats. I was allergic to them and my best friend Angie had one growing up and it was the meanest cat in the world. I went to her house every day after school and it would always hiss at me. That cat didn't really like anyone.


When we were in college at UPS, Stefan thought it was time for a kitten. Yes, kittens are adorable but I didn't think I would really get "attached" to a dang cat. We got Zoe from the humane society and a year and a half later, got Oliver from the same humane society. I never thought cats had personalities, but they really do. Zoe is very dainty and sweet, not much of a cuddler, but loves affection. Oliver is pretty outgoing, he's very vocal and likes to sit at the top of the stairs and howl to get our attention. He's also allergic to feathers, trees and several other things, including.... humans.








A few years later, we stopped into a pet store and fell in love with a little black cat, who we named Carlo. Carlo was the sweetest little kitten, but didn't stay with us for very long. He had a liver problem and we had to put him down when he was only 2.


Then came the dogs. Two months after we got married, we became the parents to two crazy little weimaraner puppies. We originally were only going to get one (Brooklyn) but they were just the cutest things in the world, and Stefan fell in love with Bentley, so we ended up getting both of them. I'd like to think it was one of the best decision we've ever made... they are the best of friends and get along so well. They've taught us so much about patience and love - I can't imagine my life without them, or any of our animals.






In January of 2008 (right after we moved to Arizona), we got Tucker. He's also a black cat and was our attempt at "replacing" Carlo. While he looks pretty similar, he's got a very funny personality. He thinks he's a dog, and we often find him laying on the dog beds with Brooklyn and Bentley. I'm not sure if it's a black cat thing, but last year we had some emergency vet visits with Tucker and he ended up having a pretty serious liver problem as well. Over $8k later and visits from both "grandpas" to help feed him through a tube for a couple months while we were working, he's now happy, healthy and very spunky.







There really is nothing like the bond a pet parent has with their pets. No matter what you do, they just want to make you happy. While they can be expensive and sometimes break things and drive us crazy, their intentions are always usually good.

Saturday, November 6, 2010

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 5

Today, I am thankful for technology and social media.


At 28 years old, I am amazed at what life is like with such advancements in technology and the growth of social media. I think back to my parents and grandparents who didn't have color TV (or TV in general), computers, internet, and listened to music on a record player or 8-track! Growing up, I remember going to the library to check out books and learned about the Dewey Decimal System for looking up books. And encyclopedias! Remember when you had to write papers and (outdated) encyclopedias were the best source of information?! Or calling the radio station to request a song, only so you could sit by the radio for hours waiting for them to play it so you could hit the "record" button on your tape player?

Just a few of the things I can't imagine living without....


HD TV
DVR
iTunes
iPhone
iPad
appleTV
(anything made from apple/mac)
navigation system in my car
computer
surround sound speakers
texting
internet (no dial up!)
3G (soon to be 4G)


And then we have social media. Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Blogs.... the list goes on, and will continue to change the way we interact with people and our networking capabilities. I used to write in a diary growing up and loved the outlet it provided me to write down all of my thoughts. I've always been a very linguistic person, I'm much better at thinking about what I have to say and articulating it in writing versus saying it in person. Blogging has provided me this new outlet again, and I couldn't be more thankful. Even if no one else reads it. :)

 
Facebook.... oh dear God, what did we do without Facebook?! First it was IM's and chatrooms on AOL, then MySpace.... and now Facebook. I love Facebook. One of my favorite things is "seeing" someone on facebook I haven't heard from in years. I love catching up with people, and the simplicity of saying hi and catching up is incredible. Networking with peers, collaborating on ideas and just posting a topic to generate conversation is really pretty cool. Our entire training department was asked to join Facebook a couple years ago and it's fun to see where people are traveling, what classes they're teaching and what their thoughts are on a variety of issues. I love seeing pictures of friends and family members... pictures of weddings, their kids and everything they've been up to.

... and if you haven't seen Social Network yet, go see it! We finally saw it last night and it was incredible!!

Friday, November 5, 2010

30 Days of Thankfulness - Day 4

Today, I am thankful for the experience of living in Arizona.


Stefan was born and raised in Washington, and my family moved to Washington from Montana when I was in 2nd grade. Besides vacations, we've never really left Washington. We both went to college in Washington, and we bought our first home less than a mile from both of our parents in UP. When I applied for the corporate training job in Arizona, I don't think we really thought 1) that I would even get the job; and 2) that we would actually be packing everything up and moving to another state when I got the job offer. The word "scary" was an understatement when we finally made the decision for me to accept the job.


I'm was so fortunate to get the job because it's given us an experience that has helped us both grow as individuals and as husband and wife. While we really miss our friends and family in Washington, we've made so many decisions on our own that have really helped us grow in our relationship. When we had our parents so close, it was so easy to just call my dad and ask him to come help us paint, or have my mom come assemble a cabinet (I swear she loves putting things together), or have Stefan's dad meet us at Costco with his truck so we could bring a new piece of furniture home.






It was extremely difficult moving somewhere and not knowing a single person. We quickly made some new friends, have great neighbors, and work with wonderful people. We've managed to make due with the fact that we don't have Stefan's dad or his truck just 5 blocks away.... but we do have an awesome neighbor who met us at Pottery Barn last summer when we bought new chaise lounges for the backyard that wouldn't fit in either of our cars. While we hate asking other people to help us do things, we've realized that sometimes you just have to ask. We've met some amazing people here and we're so thankful for what it's taught us about being self-reliant and dependent on each other.




Stefan has become quite the handyman and knows the ins and outs of maintaining a pool and continues to learn about home maintenance. I think the biggest thing I've realized is that life is all about experiences. Living in a new place brings a lot of challenges and things that leave you out of your normal comfort zone. Making the most of the experiences are really what makes the difference between being happy and being miserable, while living in an unfamiliar place.




While we don't consider the desert landscape to be as gorgeous as the Pacific Northwest, we've been able to find some beautiful hikes and attractions in the area that have allowed us to appreciate this area of the country more than we ever did. The more experiences we share will continue to leave us with wonderful memories and experiences that we can learn from and use as growth opportunities.